Friendsgiving has become one of those traditions that seemed to appear out of nowhere. One moment it was just a handful of people meeting up for a potluck the weekend before Thanksgiving and now it feels like everyone in Madison has at least one Friendsgiving invite waiting on the fridge. But what exactly is Friendsgiving and why has it become such a big deal?
So What Is Friendsgiving Anyway
Friendsgiving is a simple idea. It is a Thanksgiving style meal shared with friends instead of or in addition to family. It usually happens the weekend before the main holiday, which makes it easier for people who travel or juggle multiple family events. The menu is familiar but relaxed. Someone brings mac and cheese. Someone brings green bean casserole. Someone always forgets the rolls. It is Thanksgiving but without the pressure.
Why Has It Become So Popular
Life today looks a little different than it did for previous generations. Friends often live closer than relatives. People move for work or school. Schedules get full. Friends start to feel like family. Friendsgiving gives everyone a place to belong even if they cannot travel or even if traditional family gatherings are complicated.
There is also something fun about a holiday gathering where no one has to sit at the kids table. Friendsgiving lets everyone contribute, laugh and relax while trying new recipes or sticking with store bought sides because no one is judging.
What Makes a Friendsgiving Great
Here are a few things that make the day special for groups...
✔️ Potluck dishes that match your crowd’s personality
✔️ A table where anyone is welcome
✔️ Inside jokes mixed with heartfelt moments
✔️ A playlist that shifts from country to pop to 90s hits
✔️ Zero pressure to create a picture perfect holiday meal
The best part is that everyone shows up simply because they want to be there.
Hosting a Friendsgiving
Thinking about hosting your own this year? Keep it simple....
✔️ Pick a date early
✔️ Make a shared list so dishes do not repeat
✔️ Ask guests to bring drinks, dessert or a favorite family side
✔️ Add board games for after dinner
✔️ Light a candle and let the cozy atmosphere do the rest
If your home is too small, think about using a neighborhood clubhouse or a friend’s back porch. Friendsgiving does not need perfection. It needs people who enjoy being together. In fact, some companies are now getting into the spirit as well.
Why Friendsgiving Matters
Friendsgiving is more than a meal. It is a reminder that family can be chosen. It is a chance to slow down before the holiday rush and it is a way for people to create traditions that match the lives they live today.
Whether you host, attend or bring the rolls you forgot last year, Friendsgiving is all about connection. And connection is something we can always use more of.
